Saturday, November 14, 2015

Masturbation

Today, 14th November 2015, him & I had an argument.

I ignorantly said something. He criticized me so harshly for it. It was very intimidating.

"I get it, okay? Can you please stop now?"
I was afraid to speak anything else.

The silence was broken by his words but I am just caught up on how he spoke to me. 

"Do you understand why I am saying this?"
"I do."
"Don't feel bad and upset about it. Do you not want me to say what I feel?"
"I do, but not in this way."

He gave me the space to feel comfortable around him again. Then, I subconsciously explained why I said what I said and never found a reason to question it. He understood. Oh, how well he understood.

"I know I should have said it better. But the way you spoke about something you had little information about with so much confidence made me angry. How could you? You could ruin lives. Do you understand the gravity of the situation?"
He goes on, "You could've said I am not sure. I would've calmly explained it to you."

"I do understand. I know the way I said it was wrong. But it was wrong to have an out of proportion reaction to is just because of the way I said it. If I do something wrong and you respond to it in a wrong way, what is the difference between us?"

"Nothing", he said.

We smile. We know that we are not perfect but we are working on it. Each argument brings us closer.

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