Saturday, March 26, 2016

Marriage. Stahp.

Here's another reality check post:

1. Some things aren't in your control. Chill.

2. When the time is right, things will work out. Trust the process.

3. You have to work on becoming the best of yourself. You are not ready. You don't walk with confidence. You are not independent. I want you to marry only when you have your own beautiful house. When you are in residency. When you are able to take care of yourself and your folks. When you are truly ready.

4. No need to rush things. Getting families involved makes things complicated anyway.  Enjoy the single life :)

5. You can live alone, happily. I know it. You've proved that in your 3 months in America. You can socialize. You will have apna wala friends. Chill out!

6. You have so much to accomplish. You have to do maula ni khidmaat. You need to do ziyafaat. You need to hifz Quran.

7. You need to help students. Inspire people. Share your story.

And I find you worrying about the future which is going to work out fine anyway?

Stop thinking about marriage. You are beautiful and you will end up with someone beautiful.

You don't need to have control over everything <3

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